Living in Alignment with Your Deepest Values Changes Everything

Perhaps on the surface your life looks complete — career, family, friendships — and yet something feels missing. Stress, disconnection, and uncertainty follow you home. I know this place well.

As a successful attorney and entrepreneur, I hit that same wall. Despite every external marker of success—a job with professional accolades, marriage, children, family, friends—I was profoundly disconnected from what mattered and it was affecting me and those I cared most about. Thanks to a series of personal and professional crises, I was forced to reassess everything. So in the midst of family and professional life, I set out on a journey and discovered a process and practices that reoriented me toward clarity, connection, and alignment in my life.

What I found now forms the foundation of Useful Frames. The ancient dialogues and present-moment relational practices I use to guide people like you, help anyone willing to find their own clarity and alignment. The best part? The skills needed are already within you — my role is simply to guide you in discovering them for yourself.

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Alistair’s Qualifications

  • APPA Certified Philosophical Counselor

  • Level 2 Certified Circling Facilitator, Circling Europe

  • Level 2 Certified Transformational Connection Facilitator

  • Certified Dialectic into Dialogos Facilitator, Awaken to Meaning (Vervaeke Foundation)

  • Graduate, Authentic Revolution, Authentic Facilitator Academy

  • Aletheia Coaching, LCP Level 1 course

  • 14 years of legal experience and entrepreneurship

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“In my sessions with Alistair, I feel both accepted as I am and encouraged to become the most fully realized version of myself that he's mirroring back to me. I’m able to show up more fully for myself and loved ones now. He tailors his approach to my unique quirks so the insights that emerge are self-discovered. You are in skilled hands if you work with him.” - HW

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